I'm going to try to do a condensed version of where we have been. This pregnancy has also made things very interesting and hasn't stopped yet.
Februrary- David leaves for Qatar and my mom comes out to SLC to help me move out of the rental house and into storage then to her house in Fallbrook until Daniel and I can join David.
2 weeks later after a lot of prayer and deliberation David decides that professional basketball isn't for him and its time to come home and move on for good (the business of professional basketball made him very uncomfortable). We never went to Qatar to meet up with him.
David gets home and we have NO idea what to do now. We thought this job would be until May and would give us the ability to save up a decent amount to have some wiggle room before figuring out what is next. After all of our expenses he basically makes it home with about $500.
March- David is persuaded to try substitute teaching. We move from Fallbrook to Tehachapi to live with his parents while he figures out what he wants to do.
April- Still in Tehachapi. David decides he wants to try selling for Vivint in their summer sales group. We prepare to head out at the beginning of May to Louisville, KY for this.
May- Finish up substitute teaching. Celebrate Daniel's 2nd birthday. The next day (our 4th Anniversary) we get in the car and start driving to Kentucky. We stay in St George for our first stop and celebrate our anniversary with Daniel at Cracker Barrel. The next day we head out to Colorado Springs to stay with friends there. The next day we head to St Louis to stay with family there. Mothers day we go to church with family then make the final leg to Louisville. The next day David starts selling.
June- David is selling and its really difficult for him. I'm enjoying my time with the other ladies in the group. We go to the gym together, to the park, to local activities (if we can find a discount). I'm making some great friends. We got some free passes to local attractions through the library and tried to go to as many as possible.
July- David is really struggling with selling and we're not getting much income weekly to survive so we're basically living off of our WIC food and savings. We go to the temple and David gets a strong impression that his future is in coaching. Its hard for him to focus after this but in order for the summer to be worth it he has to finish out July. He commits to being a high school teacher in Rosamond to get into coaching.
August- We drive back to Tehachapi with stops in the same cities that we hit on the way out. We stop in Mesquite, NV to pick up our stuff in storage. We start looking for places to live in Lancaster but we can't find anything that has a good balance of quality and cost. David gets a bit overwhelmed with all he has to do to be a teacher and coach. A few things work themselves out which would make it more reasonable to live in Tehachapi than Lancaster now. We find a place to live that is under our budget and will be great for our little family.
September- We move into our apartment. Its a town home style so we have 2 bedrooms upstairs with a full bathroom, and the living room and kitchen with a half bath downstairs. It also comes with a garage and a small backyard. BUT it does not have A/C! Being 7-8 months pregnant in an apartment that gets up to 84 degrees inside is miserable. It makes me very irritable. David put up some curtains that help but I can't wait for the weather to cool down.
So there you have it. Where are we now? In a little town called Tehachapi in the middle of nowhere with a 40 minute drive to the nearest Target, WalMart, Costco, anything really. Oh, and I don't have a car some days so that's swell. We're not really planning on being here past 2 years. Its nice to be in one place for a little while, make some new friends, be closer to family. It wasn't where we thought we would be but its going to work great for the time we're here. David is working on his networking to find a coaching job that is better suited to him and then hopefully we'll be off to some college somewhere.
I'm basically 35 weeks pregnant and feeling it!
Our next update will probably be the birth story so stay tuned!
Here are some pictures to catch you up





































1 comment:
Great update darlin'! Glad that you are feeling the direction that your life together has to take. We are here for you, and you are in our thoughts and prayers, always. Love to all your precious family!!! Mom
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